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Date a girl who paints!
And since the ‘day of love’ was coming near, our lunch-hour conversation had taken on a decidedly ‘romantic’ tone.
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Prizma Ghimire
Published at : February 14, 2014
Updated at : February 14, 2014 09:08
And since the ‘day of love’ was coming near, our lunch-hour conversation had taken on a decidedly ‘romantic’ tone. Most of my guy friends were vociferously arguing about what ‘kinds of girls’ they would like to date, and as I listened to them talk about tall girls and short girls, chubby girls and thin girls, I told myself, “Dating a girl who paints sounds just right.” And that’s just my opinion, you know…
I think painters are creative, meticulous, and intimidating (in the very best sense of the word) personalities. The ‘mystery’ about them probably rests in the fact that they can live in two different worlds without being labelled bipolar (Well...we don’t really bother if they’re tagged as such, do we? They are always amazing, right?) Also, they are very discerning, receptive personalities; years of interacting with great minds—though lines and images, and prose and poetry—has made them the most complex individuals in the world.
What they think and what they paint make them their unique selves; they pour themselves onto their canvases is what makes them their unique selves. And it is when they do this that the other half of their personalities is out in the open, for the public gaze at and dwell upon. This is what makes them adorable.
My top 10 reasons for why you should totally date a girl who paints:
1. She is shabby. She is not from the world of roses and laugher and ‘perfect moments’. Actually, she is clumsy as an ox. And the great part about this is that she won’t judge you for your clumsiness but love you all the more for it.
2. She can paint her white bicycle in bright rainbow colours, and she can paint her wall all red and pink and green and blue. She is most alive when around hers canvases, her box of paints spread all about her.
3. She’s not perfect and doesn’t expect you to be perfect. She might show up on a date in her paint splattered-jeans. And it’s no big deal. She can walk around sexy and vibrant without a pair of six-inch heels.
4. She has a vivid imagination. She’ll see things other people generally won’t, the colours that people miss and the moments some ignore. And you will find her scribbling through her pad while waiting for coffee, lost in the splendour of the world around her. Through her eyes, you will fall a little more in love with yourself.
5. A piece of art is part of her soul. She doesn’t require branded purses and perfumes to treasure in her closet. She will love anything that’s art.
6. She is a happy soul. You don’t have to do anything elaborate to impress her. She will smile to anything that is drawn with love.
7. Thanks to her enhanced sense of observation, she will explore the sides of you that nobody else has ever noticed. The more complicated side, the more beautiful side, the most obvious side that everybody has been taking for granted.
8. She is open-minded. She lets you do your own thing while she does her own. She also believes in interdependence; growing differently but growing into each other.
9. It won’t be a problem for her, if your still haven’t grown up in many ways. To her, retaining your ‘self’ matters a lot. She is a beautiful mess herself; there will be no limitations to what you think, what you share. You don’t have to filter your thoughts every second minute. She will understand your spontaneous trains of thought. Your questions, your curiosity everything about you, will amuse her and she will work with you until you both have the answers.
10. If you are ever in her company, she will look at you like you are the best thing in the world. And it would be the world’s greatest feeling when you find out that you inspired a painter to create.
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