Culture & Lifestyle
What skin-revealing fashion reveals about us
Skin-revealing fashion on social media reflects a growing sense of bodily autonomy, self-expression, and resistance against conservative norms, especially among young people navigating identity and confidence in digital spaces.
Sanskriti Pokharel
Social media sites like Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok have evolved into platforms for individual expression. Skin-revealing fashion choices are becoming more visible and normalised. Young women and girls confidently post pictures and videos in crop tops, bikinis, ripped jeans, or off-shoulder dresses. Every once in a while, we also see men flaunting their taste in skin-revealing fashion.
Media researcher Umesh Pokharel says, “Nepal's digital culture is rapidly changing.” To claim that this trend is solely about exposing one’s skin would be inaccurate. Instead, it’s about controlling one’s physical appearance, decisions, and online persona. Today’s youth are not merely media consumers but also creators, curators, and performers of their own lives.”
It is evident that despite societal reservations, social media feels like a freer space where young people explore their identity, aesthetics, and bodily autonomy without immediate, in-person scrutiny.
Pokharel believes the trend reflects a shift in how Nepali youth understand autonomy in the digital age. “The clothes people wear online can be a personal statement,” he explained, “but they can also be a form of resistance against conservative ideas that dictate what is appropriate, especially for women.” This link between fashion and resistance isn't new.
This trend also ties into the history of feminist protest. All over the world and even in Nepal, women have used their bodies as tools to fight back against injustice. One powerful example is the 2007 protest by women from the Badi community, who stood topless in front of Singha Durbar. Their protest wasn’t about fashion. It was a cry for visibility, dignity, and justice. Their action broke social rules but captured national attention.
Moreover, according to Republica, partially naked women activists staged demonstration against rape in 2018. While young people might not always be protesting, the choice to wear skin-revealing fashion online can still be seen as an act of resistance against society’s rigid control over women's bodies.
Scout Willis, the 22-year-old daughter of actors Bruce Willis and Demi Moore, took to the streets of New York City recently, topless, to protest the ban on nudity on a photo-sharing website.
“Through bold photos and hashtags like #MyBodyMyChoice their digital presence resonates with similar undertones of bodily freedom,” Pokharel adds.
For many who share such content, posting skin-revealing photos is about reclaiming their bodies. Media personality Samaira Shrestha says, “When people comment negatively on my skin-revealing photos, it speaks a lot about them rather than me. It shows their personality and how they have been brought up. I have been body-shamed a lot. But posting these photos makes me feel more confident about myself. It’s a form of self-expression and self-confidence.”
Shrestha’s experience reflects what many psychologists describe as the link between self-image and social feedback. Receiving support, likes, comments, shares can uplift confidence and create a sense of belonging. This is echoed in psychological theories such as self-determination theory, which states that people thrive when they feel autonomous, competent, and connected.
But not everyone agrees on its social impact.
Dilasha Nepal, 20, who actively uses social media, believes it’s important to be mindful of context. “When in Rome, act like Romans but with common decency,” she said, stressing the need to dress appropriately depending on the setting. She pointed out that since people of all ages use social media, posting partially nude content might influence younger users who are still figuring out their sense of right and wrong.
Speaking from her own experience, she added, “As someone in my 20s, I’d quickly scroll past anything revealing if I’m near my parents. So yes, personal freedom matters, but so does being aware of your surroundings.”
This tension between personal freedom and collective responsibility lies at the heart of the conversation.
Somnath Rai, a father to two teenagers, shared his worries about the online world. “The Internet isn’t always safe. These days, people post all sorts of things, and I often worry that my kids might come across harmful content,” he said. While he acknowledges the influence of social media, he believes there should be stricter age restrictions and better digital etiquette in place.
Psychologist Anjana Das Pariyar said, “Social media does have a significant influence on how people view themselves, particularly teenagers. They might begin comparing themselves when they witness influencers baring their skin and appearing ‘perfect.’ Their self-esteem may be harmed by this.”
According to psychologist Leon Festinger’s Social Comparison Theory, people inherently evaluate themselves by comparing them to others. “On social media, this frequently results in upward comparison, where we evaluate ourselves against people who appear superior or more appealing. Teens may have feelings of insecurity or inadequacy as a result.”
Teenagers are still forming their identities, so comparisons of this nature might have an impact on their confidence, body image, and mental health. Helping kids realise that what they see online is frequently altered and does not accurately represent reality is crucial.
Rai added, “I also don’t want my children to look at Instagram influencers and feel insecure about their own bodies.”
Additionally, uses and gratification theory explains that people use media to meet personal goals: to feel seen, to connect with others, or to push back against limitations. These theories help explain why digital spaces and fashion are so powerful, especially for young people figuring out who they are.
Skin-revealing fashion is also tied to the economics of the internet. Bold content tends to attract more attention, likes, followers, shares and can open doors to monetisation opportunities. “Social media rewards visibility,” said Pokharel. “In an attention economy, this trendy fashion becomes a tool not just of expression or protest but also of livelihood and economic empowerment.”
From influencer marketing to brand partnerships, fashion, especially bold fashion, can translate into dollars for those who use it strategically. But this commercialisation also adds pressure to conform to certain beauty and body standards which leads to another layer of conflict: expression vs expectation.
As skin-revealing fashion becomes more common in Nepal’s digital landscape, what is more needed than censorship is media literacy.
Pokharel emphasised, “We need a nationwide digital awareness campaign. One that centres bodily autonomy, challenges regressive narratives, and teaches respectful online behaviour. Wearing skin-revealing clothes is not inherently shameful, nor should it invite abuse or trolling.”
The future lies in creating digital spaces that are safe, inclusive, and empowering for all users. That means encouraging freedom of expression while fostering mutual respect. The conversation must go beyond moral panic and into thoughtful reflection.
In the end, skin-revealing fashion on social media mirrors our evolving values, our personal struggles for confidence, and our collective journey toward a more open and expressive society.