Culture & Lifestyle
Is intermittent explosive disorder just bad behaviour?
Sudden and intense anger outbursts can leave loved ones feeling unsafe and impact relationships and daily life.Sanskriti Pokharel
Many individuals struggle with intense anger, leading to impulsive and aggressive behaviours. These sudden outbursts can manifest as verbal confrontations, physical altercations, or even property damage, significantly affecting relationships, professional life, and social interactions. This pattern of behaviour is recognised as a mental health condition called Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED).
Psychologist Raju Raut discusses the underlying causes, effects, and coping mechanisms that can help reduce the risk of Intermittent Explosive Disorder. Raut is currently working at Shankar Dev Campus and doing his PhD in Psychology from Tribhuvan University.
Intermittent explosive disorder is often misunderstood as simply a lack of anger management. How would you explain the critical differences between IED and other forms of anger-related issues?
IED is a complex mental health condition that extends beyond typical anger issues or poor anger management. Unlike general anger, which usually arises in response to specific stressors and can be controlled or managed, IED is marked by sudden, intense, and disproportionate outbursts of rage or aggression. Minor incidents often trigger these episodes or may occur without any clear cause.
These explosive episodes are typically brief and can be accompanied by physical symptoms such as increased heart rate and tension. The key difference lies in the intensity and lack of control associated with it. Individuals with this disorder often report feeling as though their anger takes over, leading to destructive behaviour that they may later regret.
In contrast, other anger-related issues might involve more predictable patterns of frustration or irritability, where the person retains some degree of control and awareness over their emotions and actions.
However, this disorder is not merely a failure to manage anger; it is a disorder that requires clinical attention and treatment to manage the triggers and prevent harmful behaviours.
What are the common triggers or causes that lead to explosive anger in individuals with IEDs?
Episodes of explosive anger in people with Intermittent Explosive Disorder are often triggered by stress, frustration, or even minor annoyances that others might brush off. The causes can include genetic factors, brain chemistry, or a history of trauma or violence.
Some individuals with IEDs may have learned to respond aggressively to conflict because of their environment growing up. These triggers and causes contribute to the sudden, intense outbursts seen in IEDs, making them different from regular anger responses.
Can Intermittent explosive disorder affect an individual's daily life and overall well-being?
Yes, it can significantly affect a person's daily life and overall well-being. People with IEDs often struggle with sudden and intense anger outbursts that can harm their relationships, work, and social interactions.
These episodes can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, or regret, adding to emotional stress. Over time, the impact of these outbursts can lead to isolation, anxiety, or depression, further affecting their quality of life.
Managing everyday situations becomes challenging, as the unpredictability of their reactions can create a constant sense of tension or worry, making it hard for them to live a happy life.
What lifestyle changes or coping mechanisms can help reduce the risk of this condition?
To reduce the risk of Intermittent Explosive Disorder episodes, several lifestyle changes and coping mechanisms can be helpful. Regular physical exercise, such as walking or yoga, can help.
Relaxing techniques like deep breathing or meditation can also calm the mind and prevent outbursts. It's also important to avoid triggers like alcohol or drugs, which can increase the likelihood of explosive episodes.
Moreover, developing healthy communication skills can help express feelings in a non-aggressive way, while seeking therapy or counselling can provide support in learning how to manage anger more effectively. Making these changes can lead to a more stable and peaceful daily life.
How does IED affect interpersonal relationships, particularly in familial or intimate settings?
Intermittent Explosive Disorder can affect relationships, especially with family members or close partners.
Sudden and intense anger outbursts can create fear and tension, making their near and dear ones feel unsafe or unsure about how to interact. Over time, this can lead to arguments, emotional distance, and a breakdown in trust, making it hard to maintain close and healthy relationships.
How can individuals work on themselves to control their aggressive impulses?
Individuals can manage their aggressive impulses by recognising when they feel angry. The individual should consider situations, thoughts, or feelings that typically provoke anger. By understanding these triggers, they can anticipate and prepare for potential outbursts.
Moreover, regular techniques like deep breathing or taking a short break can help calm them down. Regular exercise can also help reduce overall stress and improve mood.
I would also recommend talking to a therapist to learn strategies for handling emotions better and developing healthier ways to express feelings. Lastly, practising good communication skills and avoiding known triggers can also help control sudden bursts of anger.